What does **Poof** mean??

What does Poof mean?

I am often asked what I mean when I say a guy has “poofed” so let me clear up the definition of the term in my first post so that when reading my following posts we are all on the same page.  Poofing is what happens when you are talking to a guy for a few days/weeks/months having a really good time until one day, without any explanation, he disappears.  He does this with no explanations.  There are no more texts, phone calls or facebook messages.  He has just gone off to the island of lost men.  Say you go to dinner with a man and you have an amazing night.  You follow dinner with drinks at a trendy bar, and walking around town talking about everything from your childhood to your goals in life.  You are not able to go out the next couple days because he is busy at work but you are texting 24/7 and think he really likes you, and then after a few days. . . NOTHING.  Yes you are tempted to text him 10,000 times in hopes that he has just been busy, he isn’t.  This happens to everyone.  It is a sad and frustrating part of dating.  

Do not lose heart ladies!  Every woman that has dated more than 5 men has had a man poof.  It is not just you nor did you do anything wrong.  Men just don’t handle conflict well and would rather disappear than talk to you about anything important.  So this is what you are going to do, the next time a man poofs, you are going to go and buy yourself a fabulous pair of shoes; and delete his number, take him off your facebook, and mentally send him to the island of lost men where he belongs.  You are fabulous, and those shoes you are going to pick out?  They are even more fabulous.

Happy Hunting and Happy Shopping,

-Brandy

Louis Vuitton Sequined flats ^